I Was So in Love With a Shirt

"More than that, I count all things to be loss in view of the surpassing value of knowing Christ Jesus my Lord, for whom I have suffered the loss of all things, and count them but rubbish so that I may gain Christ." Philippians 3:8

I just spent a week at camp. Although I was technically a guest counselor, I felt like a camper most of the time. Everything and everyone was new and exciting to me, I did everything with the campers, and until I clarified, everyone thought I was a camper anyway. I went to staff meetings, but luckily I had a co-counselor who had done all of this 4 weeks in a row and didn't actually need my help.

First of all--how ridiculously lucky am I? I love camp, and when I graduated High School I thought it was the last time I'd get to experience camp that way. I love spending time with my students, and this was one of those weeks where my job felt like a vacation, because it literally was.

Anyway, I've been having a lot of thoughts about consumer culture this past year. Once we dissected it and mapped it out in class, I saw it everywhere, especially in myself, and it was sickening. Being a shopoholic is a real thing. Spell check doesn't think it is, but it's real.

This was the first camp that I've ever been to where students brought money to buy things. There were snacks, crafts, souvenirs, and special activities that you could purchase. Being at camp, a place where I usually don't have the option to shop, brought this consumeristic mindset of mine to light. I was appalled with myself.

At one point, I was waiting in line for ice cream, and the line was taking forever. I wasn't even in line with a student, so I was just totally wasting precious bonding time for something that literally was only going to bring joy for 1 minute and then weigh me down. I kept thinking, "man, I should just leave the line," but I also kept thinking, "No, you've waited this long." It's similar to the way I react toward becoming a minimalist. "You don't need this stuff!" "But I've spent so much money on it!"

So I ended up staying in line because I'm weak. I told myself it was no big deal, but If I can't give up ice cream then how can I give up anything else? When I got to the front of the line, the weirdest thing happened-- my card just wouldn't work. It was kinda like a freaky slap on the face from God, especially since it worked on that machine before and after this incident. The workers paid for me using their tip, which I took as God saying, "Don't worry, you're weak, but I've got ya."

Right after that I went to the book store with my campers, and I really wanted to buy things. I shouldn't even try my card again, because God might have been using the ice cream moment to say, "You were right, I do want you to try minimalism." But I ended up buying a very expensive sticker and a shirt. I honestly felt guilty, and the thought of giving it up crossed my mind but I wanted it so much that I didn't do it.

Isn't that sick? I was so in love with a shirt.

So the next day we went back, and one of my campers really wanted that shirt, and there were no more smalls left. So I gave mine to her, and felt relief. Honestly, I still wanted the shirt, but she was really excited about it and so that made it easier. Just when I thought I had let God down and that my selfishness had won the battle, He opened another door.

I know it's just a shirt, but this is sorta a big deal. I decided to ACTUALLY become a minimalist. I'm committing. I don't know how long it will take, but it's happening. In that moment I knew, this is who I am becoming. (Shout out to anyone from camp that understands the reference.)

The truth is, we can't actually HAVE anything. Owning that shirt won't make me love it more. Why do we feel like we need to buy the things we love? Sure I could wear it, but I wouldn't actually have it, and I wouldn't love it any more. In fact, true love doesn't possess, it lets go.

Why do we have so much stuff? Why do we feel like we have to take pictures of everything? Why do we feel like we have to share these pictures online with everyone? We do all sorts of things to make us feel like we can grab, control, take, keep, have or love something. The truth is we can't. Think about it. I can't actually hold onto the beauty of creativity, or sunsets, or wisdom-- I'm just getting a taste of it. The really beauty is Jesus, and one day I get to ACTUALLY have Him, completely.

"And He said tot hem, "Take care, and be on your guard against all covetousness, for one's life does not consist in the abundance of his possessions." Luke 12:15